The Empowered Portrait
“Nanette captured me and my entire complicated and ‘brutiful’ self. She highlighted and celebrated my scars and reflected my innate beauty back to me. I highly recommend this experience, especially as a midlife woman finally wanting to be seen, heard, and known.”
~ Pasha Marlowe, Therapeutic Comedy Coach
After photographing women for many years, I feel strongly about wanting to celebrate amazing women over the age of 50! I feel that we, as older women, need to be “Seen” for the wise, beautiful, interesting and creative women that we are! Women in our society often become less visible and less revered as we age. Let’s work together to begin to turn that around!
With this project, I am hoping to photograph upward of 50 women over the age of 50, to shine the light on who they are, what makes them the woman they are today, what lights them on fire, and to show their beauty and uniqueness! I am asking each woman who participates to sit in front of me and my camera with an open heart and open mind, and together we will create an Empowered Portrait. This project seems to have kindled a fire of interest in exploring, and expressing, the meaning of who we are as women in this stage of our lives. I am very happy and humbled with it’s success so far. If sitting for an Empowered Portrait speaks to you as a women over 50, and you’d like to join the women who have experienced this journey of exploration, please leave a comment with your email address or email me at: nanette@nanettefayegordon.com.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
-Nanette
Exciting film festival news!
We are very excited to announce that our short 13-minute film, “Exposed to the Light,” has been selected into Believe Psychology Film Festival 2021. Films accepted into the festival will be shown May 20-22!
Ashley Watts, Reg Groff, our film maker, and I are very proud of this film! Here is the link to the film’s trailer. If after watching it, you would like to join us for the next online film showing on Monday, May 24 at 7pm, please send me your email address at: nanette@nanettefayegordon.com or drop your email in the comment section below!
Film Trailer: https://youtu.be/bxb64zUxrx4
Since the photography session with Ashley which is the basis for this film, I have done several more “Soul sessions” with women. These sessions explore and celebrate a woman’s story, and life. Sometimes they also acknowledge the difficult parts, as with Ashley’s session. If you’d like know more about these sessions, or would like to book one, please email me. I’d be honored to have you share your story with me.
One Brave Soul (Gordon Women Project)
The confidence to piece it back together
“Smile for there is hope in the deepest of heartache and the saddest moments. Keep moving and find your place where happiness exists. Be strong, be fearless, be beautiful and believe that anything is possible when you have the right people there to support you.” –Misty Copeland
View from the chapel
Chapel by the sea
When asked how you might portray how you are feeling, or what you have felt, through the use of images, it is not an easy task. Gosh, often times we don’t even know how we feel to put it into words, let alone photographs. With each woman I photograph for the Gordon Women Project, I start by asking them to try and explain to me how we might express, and/or represent who they are as a woman through images. We start there and then we do lots of brainstorming. They tell me the emotion, and I ask, “what might that look like?”
Glass is fragile, once it’s broken it can be pieced back together, but it never looks the same.
tracing the lines
piecing back together
fitting in the last piece..the same but different
After much thought, Heather had some excellent and interestingly, very specific ideas for her session. She explained how going through what she had in the past few years, there were times she felt “shattered into many pieces” but now she was getting close to putting the “last piece back together,” the same but different. That there had been times recently that she felt “frayed or unraveled”, like pieces of herself had been “pulled away” and some left along the way. Heather also had in mind two near-to-her-heart places for us to photograph her in. Spots that held very strong meaning for her from childhood and throughout the years.
fraying
leaving pieces behind
Frayed but confident
Dahlias ~ symbolize elegance, inner strength, creativity, change and dignity. Known to represent one who stand strong in his/her sacred values. She chose red. The color of life.
I am so grateful for Heather’s willingness and bravery to share with me, be vulnerable, tell me her story and share her emotions. I hadn’t known Heather long before the day we photographed last summer as she is fairly new to our family of women, and it was our first time being together one-on-one, without my brother, her partner. And above is a quote that Heather chose that she feels represents her thoughts, her life and her story. This past week, I received a text from her:
“I’m strong and ready to show and share. Both gallery of images represent different things. The fractured heart, putting the pieces back together, strength, and happiness.” – Heather
sunset at her favorite childhood beach
Happiness
Confidence and beauty
Happiness
Nothing could have made me happier to hear. xo
For more information about Soul Sessions or regular Portrait Sessions, please feel free to message me at nanette@nanettefayegordon.com
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Gordon Women Project
I am so happy to be back working on my Gordon Women Project, which I introduced here last summer! Its a heart-based passion project that I started last year, photographing all 18 women over the age of 21 in my family. My goal? To spend wonderful time with each woman individually, brainstorming what makes each of them the woman they are today, talking about what lights them up, and photographing them. I have asked each woman to also write a short, or longer, piece about themselves as a woman. I have plans on how this project, and all of us Gordon family women, will come together!
Follow your dreams. They know the way.”
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Tackling a lifelong fear during COVID
March 2020, beginning of lockdown.
I popped over to see Mary soon after we all headed home to quarantine last year due to COVID19. Mary works for a large law firm downtown and had been working from home for a couple of weeks by the time I saw her. I pulled into her driveway and met her around in the backyard. She stayed up on her deck, and I stayed down on the ground. We chatted for quite awhile while practicing social distancing the best we knew how. I’ve known Mary for many years. We were apartment mates during college with several others girls. For many years I have known her, and for many years I’ve known she was afraid of dogs. So fearful of dogs. So guess what she did during the COVID19 lockdown, while she was working from home? Yup! With lots of kind and understanding help from her new friend, Sarah, and Sarah’s therapy dogs, Piper and Nellie. Mary has accomplished something extraordinary!
Mary and Sarah and her therapy dogs.
Loving on the dogs
New friends
Providing comfort
Everyone’s happy
Question 1: How has your life changed since last year at this time?
Mary: “For some, isolation has been exceedingly difficult. I have been fortunate to create a stronger relationship with one new friend – from driveway visits, to walks on opposite side of roads, to tethering on the opposite side of the pool – just to chat.”
Question 2: What’s been one thing that has surprised you about this past year?
Mary: “I have been working hard on my overwhelming, irrational fear of dogs. A 55 year fear. Since last year, I have “met “seven dogs, and I regularly spend time with two beautiful girls who love me. No one who knows me would ever predict that! So surprised and PROUD!”
Mary, I am so proud of you! Truly, you are an inspiration! And I am so happy to have met your dear friend, Sarah and her pups. All four of you are such gifts to each other!
And boy, I am thrilled to have had an opportunity to experience Sarah’s gorgeous home! Truly an unexpected treasure trove!
When Mary, Sarah, Piper and Nellie aren’t on long walks, Nellie and Piper can be found doing their special canine work with patients of Hospice of Southern Maine.
xo
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Cheers to new friends, women and pups!
One year later: amidst strangeness, some positive changes to the way she is doing business.
Almost exactly one year ago when the world seemed to shut down due to COVID19, I visited some families, some individuals and a few businesses to see how things were going. One of those businesses is where I have worked part-time for many years, Rainbow Toys in Falmouth, Maine. A few days before this photo was taken, Julie, the owner, had had to make the very difficult decision to lay-off staff, and to close the doors. There were too many unknowns. On this day, she was there by herself to fulfill curbside, no contact, phone orders but the door was locked and it all felt very strange and unsure.
Locked down at the beginning of COVIS.
Last week, I went back and visited Julie and her daughter, Emma, who runs the shop with her, and asked a couple of questions about what has changed since last year, business-wise.
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My Camera as a Conduit
Artist at work
Several years ago, I believe it was 2014, I was just starting out working with small businesses helping them set up social media platforms and shooting marketing images for them to use on websites, brochures, blogs, and social media. I was fortunate to be referred to several clients in the Newburyport, MA area and therefore, I got to spend lots of time in that gorgeous part of New England, and had an opportunity to meet, and get to know, some wonderful people. 
Artist at work
Rick Salmonson was one of these people. I had spoken on the phone with him before the morning I met him at his sign shop, Bridge Road Sign Company. I knew from talking with Rick that he thought he should be marketing on social media but he really had no experience with it at all, and truthfully not much interest. He was “old school” in his sign business in the best possible ways. I pulled into the driveway of the shop which was in his garage, and he lived above it. He somewhat reluctantly invited me in. I looked around and wondered how many other women had actually stepped foot in his shop. He showed me around and pointed out one of the signs he was working on. I was blown away. This man had been making handmade and hand painted signs for years and years. He was an Artist! This one looked huge on his work table, and he explained it was another one for The Newburyport Five Cents Savings Bank, which has many branches and I believe now is called the Newburyport Bank. He had been making almost all of their beautiful signs for many years. I was amazed at his craftsmanship, his dedication to creating signs with his hands, and his attention to details. Recently, he told me, he had purchased a computer to help with digital sign making but most signs he was still creating the way he always had, and they were gorgeous!!
As planned after a tour of his shop, we jumped in his truck and spent the next several hours together with him driving me around the greater Newburyport area, showing me all the signs he had made, and my taking pictures of them for his new Facebook page we would create together. He introduced me to many of the business owners, and we covered a lot of ground that day. As we rode, he shared much about his business, his family, and his life. We were out in the country a little after noon, and he asked if he could treat me to lunch. We stopped at a country store with a small dining area in the back. Rick new the owner and we really enjoyed our lunch and more conversation. That day stays with me.. and reminds me of the places I have had the opportunity to explore, and even more so, the people I have met as a result of having a camera in my hands. My camera in many ways feels like a conduit to a life I love. A life where I can meet new people, get to know their stories, and hopefully help them market their small business in a way that makes them proud, and ultimately brings in more business.
I don’t think Rick expected that day to make a friend. I think he thought he would tick off the box and do the FB marketing that he had been told he should do, and then be done with it. I think that day ended up being much more, as days sometimes do.
To all the people who I have had the pleasure to get to know, and to learn intimately about your businesses, thank you! I love doing this work! And to those of you who might be thinking you could use a little extra help to get your creative work, your service, or your brick and mortar out into this world, maybe I am your gal to help. And maybe, well, most likely, we’ll end up being friends, and enjoying time sharing about our lives and passions in the process of working together. And that makes it all worthwhile…
xo
Nanette 
It’s been almost one year since Ashley Watts bravely asked if I would photograph her to document the difficult time in her life that she had been, and still was, going through. I was humbled to be asked to “hold space” and to document her journey that cold, February afternoon. Ashley and I quickly realized after our session, that we had begun a creative journey together, without any idea of where it might lead us. We trusted the Universe, moved slowing one step at a time, found an excellent film maker, and our film, “Exposed to the Light,” was created. Here is the 1 minute film trailer.
Exposed to the Light trailer: https://youtu.be/bxb64zUxrx4
We have now shown this short, intimate 13-minute film to more than 100 people. We started out thinking that our audience may mostly be women as we felt the message of the healing aspects of expressing and sharing our vulnerabilities seemed maybe more of interest to women. But as last year progressed, with all of the difficult and emotional things happening in our world from politics to Covid19, we began to feel the importance of encouraging, giving permission, and allowing men, as well as women, to share vulnerabilities with each other. To date, many women and several men have joined us in viewing our film and participating in the following discussions. We are grateful to each and every one of you.
We’ve chosen to host film viewings in small groups via Zoom, where together we watch the film, and its followed up with some great discussions. We are humbled and honored with the strong, positive response we are receiving from viewers.
“Artists are intent on that pursuit — zero-ing in on the “truth” that will set us free. Nanette captures the truth of Ashley’s experience in her photos and you [Reg] capture the truth of both Nanette’s and Ashley’s experience in this video.” – Karen Montanaro
*UPDATE* “Exposed to the Light” An invitation to view our short film
UPDATE: To date, our film has been viewed by over 100 people, many of who honored us by staying to participate in a short discussion at the end of the film. We are very grateful for each and every person who has joined us. Our last showing of 2020, will be this coming Wed evening, Dec 16 at 7pm via Zoom. We would love to have you! Please drop your email address in the comment section below, and I will send you the Zoom information. x
Above is the trailer to our short film, “Exposed to the Light.” If, after watching, you are interested in…
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UPDATE: To date, our film has been viewed by over 100 people, many of who honored us by staying to participate in a short discussion at the end of the film. We are very grateful for each and every person who has joined us. Our last showing of 2020, will be this coming Wed evening, Dec 16 at 7pm via Zoom. We would love to have you! Please drop your email address in the comment section below, and I will send you the Zoom information. x
Above is the trailer to our short film, “Exposed to the Light.” If, after watching, you are interested in “attending” a Zoom viewing with us, please drop your email address into the comment section below. Please feel free to share this blog post with others you feel would enjoy/benefit from viewing our film.
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